One day, in Africa at the till in a big hardware shop, I saw a woman carrying a back pack. Suddenly a little white furry dog face popped up from it. I had never seen such a dog before and was it case of love at first sight. It was a West Highland White.
A few years later we came back to the UK. I saw my dream dog everywhere. We needed a dog. We went to the local dog shelter and by chance the vet there said he knew of a dog that needed a home because the owner was afflicted with Lupus. He had the dog at his home just looking after it and we could go and see it whenever we wanted. So we went.
Well, guess what, I thought my Angels were shining on me. It was a beautiful pure bred West Highland White! We called her Grace. But at two, she developed a genetic skin condition which never lifted and was incurable. I paid my debt to the lords of Karma by nursing her devotedly for seven years. Somehow because she was ill, I loved her even more. I could never find the breeder to point out that breeding genetically malformed dogs was a crime. But the Kennel Club constantly got my opinion. Not long after that, a new law was passed in the UK that every breeder has to chip their dogs so ill-breeding can be tracked. I hope I had something to do with that.
We had Gracie put down on my lap on her favourite couch in our lounge in December 2008. Oh the grief!
After two lonely years, we properly adopted another rescue dog, a standard Yorkshire Terrier. We loved him but he was not without fault. I never completely trusted him with small children; he had a fixation with water and would disappear down river or out to sea unless on a long harness and leash. And he fought every dog he sniffed noses with. Life was jumpy with Bobby. He constantly needed bathing and clipping. Bobby lived to an old age and died shockingly quickly from a massive internal bleed that just happened after chasing balls (his favourite occupation) down the passage in our flat here.
After a lonely while, we got another rescue dog that looks like a Lancaster Heeler but isn’t. Bass is the name his previous owner’s gave him. Bass is the dog we have now. He is the best dog we have ever had. Apart from jumping on visitor’s laps when they sit on ‘his’ couch in our lounge, he loves every living thing. He came from a divorce. God knows what happened in his previous home. He gets frightened at angry voices, women screaming on TV, us packing suitcases or retrieving things from cupboards and sudden loud slapping sounds.
This morning Mr Furlong who is doing some woodwork in his shed, came into the kitchen and slapped a wooden block on the kitchen table unaware that that slapping sound triggered panic in the dog.
I don’t think Bass was ever hit, but I think he witnessed some really nasty violence.
How lucky we are that we all live in a home where none of that stuff happens.